Tuesday, April 15, 2008

Frustrations

It has been an overall frustrating day. Tyler has been frustrated over little things (like Carter getting to close to his truck), I have been frustrated at Tyler (for getting frustrated over little things and for overall not listening today), I have been frustrated at Carter (for asking for milk and then when I give him milk having a meltdown for example), but mostly I have been frustrated at myself.

It seems the minute the boys woke up they were already wearing on my patience. Yes Tyler is 2, so he is acting like a 2 year and not listening. I should be used to this. Its my job to teach and guide him thru this time. However today it seems that I just don't have the patience for it. If I have to ask Tyler more than once I am getting upset. And that frustrates me. I am the Mom. I need to have the patience even when I don't. I don't know who apologized more today. Tyler apologizing every time he came out of time out today or myself apologizing to Tyler for overreacting.

I did try to enjoy our beautiful day today. We went to the park. Only to have to leave after 30 minutes because Tyler wasn't listening. He also didn't want to go potty at the park and chose to come home instead of going potty and then getting to play again. We then got to eat lunch outside, which the boys seemed to enjoy, but wouldn't stay seated and also wouldn't eat. Frustrating.

One funny moment - A phrase I never thought I would say "Stop running over your brother with the car". Yes he is only 2.

Sunday, April 13, 2008

Oh Poop!

Carter has decided he should also try potty training....I think he needs a little more practice.


In other news he is getting so big right before our eyes. He is now stringing 2-3 words together to make sentences. He jabbers all the time, even if we can't understand half of it. He loves to be outside and throws major fits when we have to come in. This boy is a drama king and throws some of the best tantrums. His newest trick is also walking up and down the stairs on his own. I can't believe he is already 18 months old!!!



Saturday, April 12, 2008

Some PIctures

Here are some pictures my mom took of the boys swimming and playing in the hotel later on. Enjoy!

Thursday, April 10, 2008

Jaws

Well it happened again. Biting in the nursery, This time it was Carter! Carter bit one of the workers yesterday. I can't believe it. Justin thinks it cause he got bit so much before. I am hoping/praying it is because he is getting his molars in right now. Today he did really well and if you ask him if you bite he immediately says "no biting". If he does become a biter, I am somewhat hopeful to say the phase wont last as long as Tyler's. Oye!

On another church note Tyler is doing awesome! In fact one day I went to pick him up and the teacher tells me "Tyler must really like animals. I was reading a book about animals and he was being so disruptive, he wouldn't stop talking." I am thinking great now I have another problem on my hands (this is a teacher who can be somewhat strict). Just then she finishes "and I loved it." She goes on to tell me that he never talked like that in her class and she loves watching him interact. Everyday when I pick him up they tell me how great he did (which, true, is what we are suppose to tell all the parents) and how he talks nonstop. I am SO proud of how well he is doing!

Monday, April 7, 2008

Just Keep Swimming

Oma and Opa are in town! Yesterday the boys went over to Oma and Opa's hotel and got to swim in their pool. They had a blast and didn't want to get out. Tyler jumped in over and over again. Fearless Carter would have just walked into the pool if we would have let him. Unfortunately I didn't think I had my camera, just to find in it the diaper bag later on.

We then met up with BJ, Abbi, Toby, and Norah and all had dinner. The boys did surprising well and Tyler even went potty at the restaurant. We all went back to their hotel were the boy cousins got to jump on the bed, have a pillow fight, and wrestle together. They had such a blast and it's so much fun to watch them play together.

Today Oma and Opa came over and watched the boys while I ran some errands. They had a lot of fun showing off their toys. When I got home thy had just gotten back from a long walk around our neighborhood. I was very happy to hear that BOTH of them held their hands during the whole walk and did a great job pointing out all the flowers and leaves along their way. Tyler also had a pretty good day potty training. We have about a 75% success rate now and I only see that getting higher each day. Life is good.

Saturday, April 5, 2008

Foxy


Every year around this time we get a pair of foxes who then have about 4-5 pups right outside our backyard. This is the first time Tyler has really noticed the foxes. He loved telling us how the foxes were "umping" ,"runnin", and counting them. He didn't want Justin to put him down. I love seeing how much he observes and understands the world around him now. On our way to dinner tonight he kept telling me the "sun is in my eyes". It still surprises me that he talks so well now.

Wednesday, April 2, 2008

A Rough Patch

I lied. I said no more posts about potty training. Its been a rocky couple days on the potty training front. Sunday was a perfect day - not a single accident. Then came Monday. I had to cover someone at work, so I was more than a little anxious.

Tyler did the "I have to go potty, sit on the potty, not do anything, 5 minutes later I have to potty" thing many times at church. However he finally did go three times. He had one half accident. He had to poop and started going before we got to the potty, but he did finish in the potty at least. Justin was gone all night on Monday so I thought we would go to the mall for dinner and play. This was a mistake.

We get our food at the mall and I set it all out, making sure each boy has ketchup, the fruit is divided up, they have their milk, etc. I take a bite out of my sandwich to hear "I have to go potty". Great. So I pack up the food in the bag making sure nothing spills and we head to the women's bathroom. Tyler sits on the potty for a good 5-10 minutes and nothing. So back out to the food court. We eat for about 5 more minutes and Tyler says he is done and starts getting out of the chair. Then he is saying he has to go potty again and doing the dance. At this point I had eaten enough and Tyler said he was done so I put Carter in the stroller with the rest of his food and dumped the rest. Once again no potty in the bathroom. We then went on to look at the doggies and Tyler continues to act like he needs to go. I take him to the family restrooms in another part of the mall. After about 10 minutes of sitting there he finally goes. He was screaming bloody murder, but he went.

Now that we have that done and over with we head to the play area. Shoes and socks come off, Carter goes running and Tyler tells me he has to poop. I tell him he just went, so I am sure he is fine. Two minutes later he is saying "poop" and squatting. I pick him up, throw him in the stroller, grab Carter and head back to the bathrooms where I get to clean out underwear. Needless to say, we went home after that. Luckily looking back at this escapade I find it rather amusing.

Tuesday was somewhat better. He woke up and went right away. However he managed to cover me in pee so I put him back in his crib and jumped in the shower. Right before I turn on the water I hear him saying he has to poop. I go and check and he says he doesn't. Guess what was in his pants when I got out of the shower. So that one is totally my fault. We then play a little downstairs and he had yet another accident, but did finish up in the potty. We went to a friends house where he did great. However he wouldn't go potty again before his nap. After an hour he woke up, but still wouldn't go. When I went to go get him a little while later the sheets were wet. He then had another success, just to have another accident after dinner. However he did wake up around 10:30 and immediately went potty. He did the same thing this morning. However we also had to go to church this morning. 3 accidents later (and 1 success) and we are at home taking naps. Tomorrow we have church again and he won't be in my room. I am not even sure if he will tell the teacher he has to go. For now he is going in underwear and I am going to concentrate on him having all successes the rest of the night. He is making progress, he just is also taking some steps back. Hopefully this rough patch will be short.